When women don’t follow the norms in Afghanistan they are killed by “Honor Killing”
When women don’t follow the norms in western world, they are prohibited from doing so under the pretext of “respecting women”

So except for the relative amount of control, what’s the difference?

What about if things deemed demeaning for women are things most hot babes truly want and the reason why it’s prohibited is because somebody don’t want them to have that choices?

Some people honor women by killing them, through honor killing. Some people honor women by prohibiting all choices that allow women to pick richer men more easily. That effectively ration females to males that would kill them like http://www.beaumontenterprise.com/news/article/Autopsy-Missing-mom-s-kids-killed-in-WA-suffered-3100705.php. Why not let the hot babes choose?

I honor hot babes by calling them hot, and I am a pervert.