If we study chimps we will see that for primates, hatred is actually natural. It’s what we do against anyone that get in the way of our reproductive success. It’s very understandable.
Prohibition of all victimless crimes (such as being jewish, or smoking dope) in our species are based on simple hatred, which is masked under 1001 pretexts. Some of those pretext is often “love” of the victim, which is utter BS.
That makes a lot of sense Andy. This is my framework. Evolutionary psychology. Women are actually whore inside but doesn’t want to look that way. Before marriage I hold all the card, so she shut up. After marriage, she holds half of my card. Humans naturally get mad at those they perceived as weak.
Anyway, my marriage is not that bad. I still enjoy fucking her. If I have a son, I’ll explain to him how to do this more cost effectively.