That makes a lot of sense Andy. This is my framework. Evolutionary psychology. Women are actually whore inside but doesn’t want to look that way. Before marriage I hold all the card, so she shut up. After marriage, she holds half of my card. Humans naturally get mad at those they perceived as weak.
Anyway, my marriage is not that bad. I still enjoy fucking her. If I have a son, I’ll explain to him how to do this more cost effectively.
Actually the bottom line is this:
Life time alimony, life time commitment, and obligation to support child not biologically yours is a really really REALLY stupid shitty deals.
When people are forced to pay a life time alimony, people said, well, it’s their fault, they chose that deal.
My whole point is that some terms in marriage is so shitty there is no way it’s done consensually by significant number of people. Let’s face that. Who want to agree to pay child support for kids that’s not his? If you got a girl friend that want to live with you, and say look, I agree to have sex with you, but if I got knocked up by some other guy you have to pay. Would you sign that contract?
Shouldn’t marriage contract have expiration date? You know what? Why not let the couple (or whatever number of people that want that) to decide? Say 1 day, or 1 month, or 1 hour. Ups, it’s illegal because that’s effectively prostitution.
Marriage is a death horse now. It’s restrictions outside marriage that is the problem. Say a girl, as many girls, are attracted to Justin Bieber. Say the attraction is mutual because males are promiscuous assholes that want to grab many women. Would society let it?