At least not as long as government still regulate marriage and you can still do it outside marriage legally.
If that doesn’t persuade you, you need to take into account that marriage is like selling options.
Here, when to sell your options depend on how much you think you market value will go up, measured by the expected value that you can attract higher quality specimens and the lost of fucking opportunity you get if you marry now.
To hell with love or hate. The definition is not clear anyway.
The issue is every body want to be paid. Many hot women do not care about love. They just want to know how rich you are and pretend that it’s love. I always tell my girl friend that I don’t love her and I hate marriage and it’s all bullshit and if I can choose I would just wanna be rich and collect mistresses.
She chose to marry me anyway and I reluctantly agree after 3 years. If I told her I love her, she would have thought I am a loser and run away. Maybe that’s what I should have done.
Why am I married? I was told that if I am not married my kid won’t get citizenship. I was like, so what? I don’t need government. I’ll just make more money and send them somewhere else. But then there is an issue that without ID card kids won’t be able to get passport. Of course you can always arrange that out illegally.
Recently liberals are gaining momentum and that is fixed but hei dice is rolled.
My main goal is not really banning marriage. My goal is to make sure that all alternatives are free.