Charles, while I like your ideal, it’s not how life works. So others don’t rule us we need to be powerful. That means rulling others.To a certain extand it’s be enslaved or enslave. It’s the natural order the strong get favors from the weak. It set bad precedent and getting less and less, but I won’t hold my breath till it’s gone completely.
By the way, I bet the chinese emperor that lingchi guys that criticize his traveling is not really the one getting “offended”. Qing emperors were quite moderate except the last one (which is female acting as emperor). The one that suggest that the emperors should get offended is his political advisor.
The first and most straight forward way is to rape. That is politically incorrect now.
The second way is to consensually persuade the woman to mate with you. The problem is the world are filled with so many other males. Many are richer, smarter, taller, and more handsome.
Well but Tom Cruise, Bill Gates, and Kobe aim for someone higher than our typical target market. Not really. How do you know they want only one? Chinese emperor got 10k chicks and he didn’t even have flat TV and flush toilet.